Female wants to how i strat Marsturbate & Virginty?

I'm a 16 yrs old,never or oral,now intersted to start marsturbate so that, whn i find some one to open my virginty i dn;t have pain, so, is there is a spl. way to start or feel good to start marsturbate,please suggest me what type of feeling and how i start marsturbate.this question giv me tension always sugest the way or website.